Book Review: Manipulated Lives by H. A. Leuschel

ManipulatedLivesAbout the Book

Five stories. Five lives.

Manipulators are everywhere. At first these devious and calculating people can be hard to spot, because that is their way. They are often masters of disguise: witty, disarming, even charming in public – tricks to snare their prey – but then they revert to their true self of being controlling and angry in private. Their main aim: to dominate and use others to satisfy their needs, with a complete lack of compassion and empathy for their victim.

In this collection of short novellas, you meet people like you and me, intent on living happy lives, yet each of them, in one way or another, is caught up and damaged by a manipulative individual. First you meet Tess, whose past is haunted by a wrong decision, then young, successful and well balanced Sophie, who is drawn into the life of a little boy and his troubled father. Next, there is teenage Holly, who is intent on making a better life for herself, followed by a manipulator himself, trying to make sense of his irreversible incarceration. Lastly, there is Lisa, who has to face a parent’s biggest regret. All stories highlight to what extent abusive manipulation can distort lives and threaten our very feeling of self-worth.

Format: ebook (273 pp.)     Publisher:
Published: 8th June 2016    Genre: Short Stories, Contemporary Fiction

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My Review

In this collection of compelling short stories, the author puts the reader inside the minds of five people who have either suffered psychological manipulation at the hands of another or been responsible for it.  The book persuasively illustrates that anyone – young or old, male or female – can fall prey to manipulation.  For instance, in the story ‘Tess and Tattoos’, we meet Tess, a charming, kind old lady, who was unlucky enough to form a relationship with someone who abused her physically and psychologically.  Incidentally, I was so glad that Tess found a friend to provide comfort to her as she unburdens herself of her traumatic memories.

In all the stories, the reader is witness to the internal dialogue of the characters as they reflect on their experiences and try to make sense of how they were manipulated or, in one case, to justify (unsuccessfully to my mind) their actions.  At times, I felt this self-analysis seemed a little too like reading a psychology textbook.  I also found myself feeling rather worn down by the bleak nature of their experiences.  By the time I got to the story of ‘The Narcissist’, which I’ll confess I found quite disturbing, I felt myself in sympathy with the thoughts of his psychiatrist: ‘It is tiring, exhausting, and in cases like this, downright gruelling to observe the human mind at its worst.’

The author clearly has a gift for creating memorable characters, believable situations and stories that often have a surprising sting in the tail.  Readers with an interest in psychology or who like to inhabit the minds of characters (and don’t mind if some of these are unlikeable) will find Manipulated Lives a fascinating and compelling read.   I also think the book might be helpful for anyone trying to understand the experiences of someone who has been subject to coercive control or manipulation.

I received a review copy courtesy of the author in return for an honest and unbiased review.

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H A LeuschelAbout the Author

Helene grew up in Belgium where she gained a Licentiate in Journalism & Communication, which led to a career in radio and television in Brussels, London and Edinburgh. She now lives with her husband and two children in Portugal and recently acquired a Master of Philosophy with the OU, deepening her passion for the study of the mind. When she is not writing, Helene works as a freelance journalist and teaches yoga.

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Book Review: Olive Kitteridge by Elizabeth Strout

AOlive Kitteridgebout the Book

At times stern, at other times patient, at times perceptive, at other times in sad denial, Olive Kitteridge, a retired schoolteacher, deplores the changes in her little town of Crosby, Maine, and in the world at large, but she doesn’t always recognize the changes in those around her: a lounge musician haunted by a past romance; a former student who has lost the will to live; Olive’s own adult child, who feels tyrannized by her irrational sensitivities; and her husband, Henry, who finds his loyalty to his marriage both a blessing and a curse.

As the townspeople grapple with their problems, mild and dire, Olive is brought to a deeper understanding of herself and her life – sometimes painfully, but always with ruthless honesty. Olive Kitteridge offers profound insights into the human condition – its conflicts, its tragedies and joys, and the endurance it requires.

Format: eBook, paperback (270 pp.)  Publisher: Pocket Books
Published: 4th July 2008                        Genre: Literary Fiction, Short Story

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My Review

Olive Kitteridge was my read for this month’s theme of The BookBum Club – New Year, New Author.  Although I have several books by Elizabeth Strout on my bookshelves (real and virtual), I’d never actually read one so this was a great opportunity to rectify that omission. The book is also on my TBR Pile Challenge list which was an extra motivation for selecting it.

The book is subtitled A Novel in Stories and in some of the stories, Olive is the main character but in others she has the equivalent of a walk-on part.    At first, Olive comes across as direct, bordering on unpleasant, but gradually the reader gets a sense that in fact she is remarkably astute; she just has no time for people who try to put on an act.  ‘He is like her that way, can’t stand the blah-blah-blah.’  Olive also shows herself to be sensitive to other’s moods and needs.  In ‘Starving’, Olive’s encounter with a distraught girl produces ‘a kind of warm electricity, something astonishing and unworldly in the feeling of the room’.

As the book progresses, we learn of the many tragedies, challenges and disappointments in Olive’s life – truly she ‘has lived through her own sorrows’ – and I found myself sympathising with her simple desire to be a valued part of her son’s life and admiring her loyalty and devotion ‘in sickness and in health’ to her husband, Henry.  Looking back, Olive regrets not celebrating the small moments of happiness that occur in life – a walk in the crisp autumn air, holding hands with her husband, Henry.  ‘Had they known at these moments to be quietly joyful? Most likely not. People mostly did not know enough when they were living life that they were living it.’   A message for us all there.

I found some of the stories bleak, many thought-provoking, others heart-warming and hopeful.  In every case, I felt as though I was reading about real people.  I came to know their habits, their likes and dislikes.  I could also imagine myself on the streets of Crosby.  This ability to create realistic characters and an authentic sense of place is the author’s real achievement, I think.

In my edition, the last story was ‘The Burgess Boys’, which is the title of another book by Elizabeth Strout.   This confused me a bit because it didn’t feature Olive at all so I can only assume it was intended to be an introduction to this later novel.  The penultimate story, ‘River’, certainly seems a more fitting and satisfying conclusion to the novel.   From feeling quite ambivalent about Olive after the first few chapters, I grew to understand her, admire her and, by the end of the book, feel a real affection for her.  Olive is a survivor and for me the lasting message of the book is the triumph of the human spirit over adversity.  May we all share this feeling: ‘Olive felt something she had not expected to feel again: a sudden surging greediness for life.’

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Elizabeth StroutAbout the Author

Elizabeth Strout is the author of several novels, including: Abide with Me, a national bestseller and BookSense pick, and Amy and Isabelle, which won the Los Angeles Times Art Seidenbaum Award for First Fiction and the Chicago Tribune Heartland Prize, and was a finalist for the PEN/Faulkner Award and the Orange Prize in England. In 2009 she was awarded the Pulitzer Prize for her book Olive Kitteridge. Her short stories have been published in a number of magazines, including The New Yorker. She teaches at the Master of Fine Arts program at Queens University of Charlotte.

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