#6Degrees of Separation – A book chain from Wild Dark Shore to Flashlight

It’s the first Saturday of the month which means it’s time for 6 Degrees of Separation.

Here’s how it works: a book is chosen as a starting point by Kate at Books Are My Favourite and Best and linked to six other books to form a chain. Readers and bloggers are invited to join in by creating their own ‘chain’ leading from the selected book.

Kate says: Books can be linked in obvious ways – for example, books by the same authors, from the same era or genre, or books with similar themes or settings. Or, you may choose to link them in more personal or esoteric ways: books you read on the same holiday, books given to you by a particular friend, books that remind you of a particular time in your life, or books you read for an online challenge. Join in by posting your own #6Degrees chain on your blog and adding the link in the comments section of each month’s post.   You can also check out links to posts on X using the hashtag #6Degrees.


This month’s starting book is Wild Dark Shore by Charlotte McConaghy which was longlisted for this year’s Women’s Prize for Fiction. I read it for my book club but didn’t love it as much as lots of other people, including the Women’s Prize judges, clearly did. Links from each title will take you to my review or the book description on Goodreads.

Wild Dark Shore is set on a remote island which is home to the world’s largest seed bank. As the book opens, the scientists carrying out research have already abandoned the island in the face of rising sea levels. Cold, Cold Heart by Christine Poulson is set in a similarly remote location, an Antarctic research station. Not a good place to be cut off from the outside world in when there’s a killer on the loose.

Another remote place features in The Dark Isle by Clare Carson in which Sam travels to the small island of Hoy in Orkney in an attempt to piece together the facts about her father’s death many years before.

A rather more welcoming island – Alderney, in the Channel Islands – is the setting for A Line to Kill by Anthony Horowitz, the third book in his Hawthorne & Horowitz crime series. A literary festival seems an unlikely location to encounter a cold-blooded killer but you’d be wrong.

Although not set during a literary festival, Devorgilla Days by Kathleen Hart does have as its location Wigtown, the town known as ‘Scotland’s book capital’. As part of her recovery from physical and mental health issues, the author has a daily swim in the sea.

In Swimming Lessons by Claire Fuller, Ingrid hides the letters she writes to her husband about the truth of their marriage inside some of the thousands of books he owns. Having written the final letter she disappears from a Dorset beach.

A mysterious disappearance from a beach takes place in the opening pages of Flashlight by Susan Choi, this time from the coast of Japan. Flashlight is one of the six novels on the shortlist for the Women’s Prize for Fiction 2026 bringing me satisfyingly full circle.

My chain has taken me from darkness to light. Where did your chain take you?

Book Review – A Private Man by Stephanie Sy-Quia @picadorbooks

About the Book

Rome, 1953. David is young, handsome, charismatic and sworn to celibacy. He is freshly ordained, and about to return to England to begin life as a priest. Devotion to God is all he’s ever known.

In London, Margaret is entangled in an impossible love affair. Committed to living on her own terms without sacrificing her faith, she becomes drawn to a women’s movement challenging the archaic rules of the Church.

When their lives are thrown together at a Catholic college in a quiet village, an undeniable connection forms between them. And so begins a story of forbidden love, sacrifice and secrets, with consequences that will reverberate across the generations.

Decades later, she is being cared for by her grandson, who has just discovered the strange truth of his family history.

Format: Hardcover (288 pages) Publisher: Picador
Publication date: 19th February 2026 Genre: Historical Fiction

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My Review

At the funeral of his great-uncle in 2018, Adrian learns something unexpected about his grandparents, namely that his grandfather David was once a Catholic priest. As he begins caring for his elderly grandmother who is suffering from dementia, he tries to draw out the story of his grandparents’ relationship and marriage, revealed in a series of flashbacks. We experience David’s childhood, his time at a seminary in Rome and the ritual of his ordination. It’s a life that seems likely to follow a prescribed path of absolute devotion to the Catholic faith and celibacy.

‘He liked being told what to do. He liked waking up knowing what he had to wear in the morning. He liked the awareness of himself as being in a hierarchy, with people above and below him. He liked all the secret codes and small rituals… He liked his presence being demanded in a particular place at a particular time, and the fact there would be consequences if you didn’t appear.’

It could not be more different from Margaret’s freer, more adventurous life including multiple sexual encounters.

David and Margaret first meet in the 1960s at a theology college where Margaret is a teacher and David the priest. They are both devoted to their Catholic faith but Margaret is not afraid to challenge the Church’s doctrine, specifically relating to the place of women in the Church. What starts as discussion, debate and a sharing of ideas – first in college rooms, then in David’s house – transforms into something much deeper. Before long though the romantic and physical attraction between them cannot be denied, leaving David with an agonising decision. To be with Margaret in the way he desires means leaving the Church. He is left in doubt about the brutality of the process of laicization.

I adored the way the author described the little details of their life together, the gentle give and take that occurs in a long, loving relationship.

‘She thought of the thousand ways they had shown their love to one another, and been unnoticed, else misapprehended. Cups of tea in their multitudes. Crooked inventions of his to ease her in her pastimes. The plank full of nails bent at an angle, for her spools of thread…. Sunday roasts. Drinks mixed and brought to her desk. Records played, and dancing. So much dancing. Long drives, late at night, to fetch one another from this or that place. Jumpers knitted. Quilts stitched, spread over both of their knees on winter evenings. Reading to one another.’

I found Margaret’s decline from the vibrant, articulate woman she once was to someone requiring help with the most intimate of tasks quite heartbreaking. And although I was saddened by how the once passionate relationship between David and Margaret changed over the years, I could also appreciate its realism.

To a certain extent David always remained for me the ‘private man’ of the book’s title. I didn’t feel I got to know him as completely as I did Margaret. However, I could completely understand how David would be attracted to the intelligent, uncompromising, forthright Margaret.

Based on the story of the author’s own grandparents, A Private Man is a tender, moving love story about two people who, despite the obstacles in their way, could not imagine a life without each other.

I received a advance review copy courtesy of Macmillan via NetGalley.

In three words: Tender, intimate, moving
Try something similar: Small Pleasures by Clare Chambers

About the Author

Stephanie Sy-Quia was born in 1995 and is based in London. Her writing and criticism have been published in The Guardian, The White Review, The Boston Review, Granta, The TLS, and others. She is a Ledbury Poetry Critic and has twice been shortlisted for the FT Bodley Head Essay Prize.

Her debut Amnion, published by Granta Poetry in 2021, received a Somerset Maugham Award and was a Poetry Book Society Winter Recommendation; was longlisted for the Rathbones Folio and RSL Ondaatje Prizes; and won the Forward Prize for Best First Collection. She is the recipient of an Eric Gregory Award.

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