#BookReview Saving Missy by Beth Morrey @RandomTTours @HarperCollinsUK

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Welcome to today’s stop on the blog tour for Saving Missy by Beth Morrey which was published in paperback on 4th March 2021. It’s also available in hardback, ebook and audiobook format. My thanks to Anne at Random Things Tours for inviting me to participate in the tour and to Harper Collins for my digital review copy via NetGalley.


Saving MissyAbout the Book

Prickly. Stubborn. Terribly lonely. But everyone deserves a second chance…

Missy Carmichael’s life has become small. Grieving for a family she has lost or lost touch with, she’s haunted by the echoes of her footsteps in her empty home; the sound of the radio in the dark; the tick-tick-tick of the watching clock. Spiky and defensive, Missy knows that her loneliness is all her own fault. She deserves no more than this; not after what she’s done. But a chance encounter in the park with two very different women opens the door to something different. A new life beckons for Missy, if only she can be brave enough to grasp the opportunity.

But seventy-nine is too late for a second chance. Isn’t it?

Format: Paperback (400 pages)     Publisher: Harper Collins
Publication date: 4th March 2021 Genre: Contemporary Fiction

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My Review

The story of Missy’s current, rather empty daily life is interspersed with memories of her first meeting with her husband, Leo, at Cambridge in 1956, their subsequent marriage and their life together bringing up their son, Alistair and daughter, Melanie.  For various reasons, Missy now finds herself living alone in her ‘barren old house’. As she recalls, ‘It seemed like my whole life had been a cacophony, a constant buzzing and background chatter, and then Leo went and there was suddenly total and absolute stillness. Stillness, and silence and space.’  That silence and stillness is ended thanks to a chance encounter in her local park with the irrepressible Sylvie which sees Bob the dog come into Missy’s life, opening up a whole new world of connections, including a new friend, Angela, and Angela’s son Otis.

The book is full of lovely touches of humour, such as Missy’s thoughts on the reading of poetry aloud (the occasion of her first meeting with Leo), ‘Like religion and Bongo Boards, best practised in private’. Or Bob’s habit of barking when anyone approaches the house, making her (yes, Bob is a she) ‘less of a guard dog and more of a very loud doorbell’.  I also loved the description of the numerous objects in Missy’s attic as ‘the leftovers of lost lives’.

The book has some wonderful set pieces, such as Missy’s participation in a pub quiz team at which the prize, much to Angela’s delight, includes a signed Jeremy Corbyn colouring book (this is 2016 after all), and a dash across London in the quest for the perfect birthday cake, facilitated by Sylvie’s seemingly inexhaustible list of contacts.  Perhaps my favourite was the Christmas Day party at Sylvie’s house, to which Missy reluctantly accepts an invitation, reminding me a little of when Scrooge finally accepts his nephew’s invitation to join their festivities in A Christmas Carol.  Looking around at Sylvie interacting with her guests, Missy realises that, although filled with happiness for much of the time, her life with Leo was rather insular.  ‘We existed in our own bubble, floating along without ever really being bothered enough to probe deeper or – heaven forbid – pierce our protective film.’ Missy comes to recognise that it’s people who truly like themselves who have the greatest capacity for friendship and that this involves letting others in and accepting help when it’s offered.

I’m sure I won’t be the only reader to fall in love with Missy.  Not that she’s perfect or hasn’t made mistakes in her life.  However, I felt she had a tendency to undersell herself.  For example, she’s thoughtful and generous when it comes to choosing gifts for others and has a natural rapport with children.  For me, the discovery of the true extent of Missy’s courage and devotion created the perfect ending to the book.

In three words: Tender, heart-warming, uplifting

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Beth MorreyAbout the Author

Beth Morrey is currently Creative Director at RDF Television where she has been involved in numerous productions. She helped create The Secret Life of Four Year Olds series for Channel 4 and devised 100 Year Old Drivers for ITV. She was shortlisted for the Grazia-Orange First Chapter competition back in 2011, had her work published in the Cambridge and Oxford May Anthologies, and was Vice-President of the Cambridge Footlights. Beth lives in London with her husband, two sons and dog.

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#BookReview Saving The World – Women: The Twenty-First Century’s Factor for Change by Paola Diana

Saving the WorldAbout the Book

Part manifesto for change, part historical and sociological essay, Saving The World charts women’s condition through the centuries, analysing their treatment within political, religious, economic and societal contexts to form a bigger picture of their place in the world; because to understand the present, and make a meaningful difference, we must get to grips with the past. This is a journey that concludes with a clear vision for a better society in which all women are set free from fear, violence and oppression. Paola Diana impresses on us that this world we inhabit, dominated by men and often seemingly immutable, is far from the only one possible.

Already a bestseller in Italy, this translation has been extensively revised by the author to incorporate recent events that impinge on women’s rights and the struggle to achieve equality. A vivid call for change, Paola Diana’s polemic should be read by all in powerful positions in government, industry and cultural institutions.

Format: Paperback (161 pages)   Publisher: Quartet
Publication date: 2nd May 2018 Genre: Nonfiction

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My Review

I found this book thought-provoking in the sense that it made me think but that parts of it provoked me.

Whilst I admired the author’s passionate advocacy for the importance of education for girls and women, there were numerous statements I found contradictory. For example, the author is dismayed at the tendency for women to be judged on their appearance and feel pressurised into resorting to cosmetic surgery to disguise the signs of ageing, yet elsewhere she urges the need for ‘icons of beauty’.

I also found myself taking issue with the author’s suggestion that some characteristics are innately feminine, such as sensitivity and an inclination to take care of others. Echoing the book’s title, she states women are saving the world ‘because they have an attitude of love…an empathetic and multi-faceted perspective’. She contrasts this with ‘brute strength’ which, she seems to suggest, is an innately male characteristic. However, later she argues that mothers have a responsibility to raise ‘mindful and respectful’ sons, suggesting that failing to do so means they must accept some of the blame for perpetuating inequality.

I felt the author had a tendency to present statements of belief as statements of fact. For example, stating, ‘When a woman has a job, she gains more dignity in the eyes of her partner, she feels independent, has high self-esteem and does not tolerate either physical or psychological violence’.  Is she really saying that women who don’t work, perhaps because they have caring responsibilities, shouldn’t expect those benefits or that no women who works has ever experienced domestic violence?  The author also goes on to suggest, without any supporting evidence I could see, a causative link between work, the stress caused by not being able to have children and a resultant decrease in fertility. 

I don’t think many would argue with the author’s selection of Malala Yousafzai as a role model for women because of her campaign for the education of girls but some of the author’s other choices seemed distinctly bizarre. For example, Coco Chanel who, although undoubtedly a pioneer in women’s fashion, was accused of collaboration with the Nazis during World War 2 and held some very unsavoury anti-Semitic views. Similarly, although unarguably a publishing phenomenon, J K Rowling’s views on transgender issues have been controversial. In fact, Saving the World is largely silent when it comes to transgender people. And as a male role model Edward VIII seems an odd choice. Yes, he sacrificed his position because of his love for a woman but he was a serial adulterer and made a controversial visit to Germany in 1937 during which he had a meeting with Adolf Hitler. 

Where I thought the book was strongest was in shining a light on the oppression that some women face, and setting out practical steps that governments could take to advance the position of women. For example, supporting feminist movements in countries where women face discrimination or making equal rights a condition of membership of economic or political institutions, such as the European Union.  However, I found the author’s assertion that ‘A good mother is a working mother who sets an example to her children of sacrifice and duty’ overly simplistic. 

I received a review copy courtesy of Quartet Books and Midas PR.

In three words: Thought-provoking, passionate, idealistic

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About the Author

Paola Diana is an entrepreneur, author and activist, and a regular contributor on TV and radio, both in the UK and Italy. After leading a think tank in support of former European and Italian President Romano Prodi’s political campaign, she went on to found and chair the Diana Group, a market leader in recruitment and lifestyle services for high-net-worth individuals, families and corporations around the world. Diana’s work in this field led to her inclusion in the 2017 edition of Spear’s 500.

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