About the Book
It was a perfect relationship until time pulled them apart.
The Days of Our Birth delves into the intricate bond between Peter and Sarah as they navigate their formative years. Spanning from their sixth birthday through two decades, the narrative unfolds against the backdrop of Sarah’s placement on the autism spectrum.
With a blend of humour and poignancy, the book intricately weaves together themes of love and friendship, unravelling the tale of two individuals who grapple with their emotions for each other, even though they remain unacknowledged.
Format: ebook (294 pages) Publisher: Rampart Books
Publication date: 27th June 2024 Genre: Contemporary Fiction
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My Review
The Days Of Our Birth charts the relationship between Sarah and Peter over the course of twenty years starting with their childhood friendship – a friendship formed partly because they are next door neighbours and partly because they were born on the same day – and ending in the present day. Along the way we drop in on them, so to speak, at various points in their lives, sometimes on birthdays but also at other significant moments as well. (The story does not unfold chronologically, sometimes looping back on itself, so keep an eye on the chapter headings.)
Peter’s story is a coming-of-age narrative charting life events such as his first sexual encounter, his travels around Europe and the emerging evidence of his literary talent. Although he experiences personal tragedy there are many light-hearted moments, such as his father’s culinary experiments. Peter is the one person who accepts Sarah just as she is, becoming her supporter, confidante and companion. He doesn’t care that other people, including his best friend Cal, think it strange he and Sarah walk hand in hand and yet, as Peter approaches adolescence, he does begin to wonder about the nature of their friendship.
Sarah’s story sensitively explores what it is like to be on the autistic spectrum, to be aware that you see the world slightly differently than other people and that they will make assumptions about you because of this. Sarah’s fierce intelligence sees her ostracised by her school classmates and nicknamed ‘Psycho Sarah’. At times she even makes deliberate mistakes to avoid standing out, a kind of ‘self-harm’ she re-enacts periodically over the years. Even when she has forged a successful career and knows she makes a valuable contribution, she still feels something of an outsider despite her attempts to modify her behaviour to match what she thinks others expect.
Sarah and Peter each have things they admire about the other. Peter appreciates Sarah’s ability to observe people, to piece things together and make sense of situations, to see things he misses. ‘She’s able to look under people’s skin and peel away at them, layer by layer, like an onion’. Sarah admires Peter’s willingness to improvise, to do random things without needing to plan every step of the way as she does.
Although the bond between Peter and Sarah persists over the years, it is periodically tested, in some cases almost to breaking point. There are mis-steps, misunderstandings and periods where they lose touch. But although their relationship changes over time it does so in a way they could not have imagined or hoped. I wasn’t the only one with tears running down my cheeks at the end.
Don’t be put off by the fairly uninspiring cover because The Days Of Our Birth is a thoughtful, beautifully written story about the bond between two people.
I received an advance reader copy courtesy of the the author.
In three words: Tender, insightful, absorbing
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About the Author
Charlie Laidlaw is a PR consultant, teaches creative writing, and lives in East Lothian. He is a graduate of the University of Edinburgh and was previously a national newspaper journalist and defence intelligence analyst. He has lived in London and Edinburgh, and has two children.
His other novels are Everyday Magic, The Things We Learn When We’re Dead, The Time Between Space, Being Alert! and Love Potions and Other Calamities.
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